Between Me & My World

Since I got married, i ada maid only after we have 3 kids and satu lagi pasal nk move in to AS. Before that we just sent them to babysitter's house je. But since dah ada maid, memula tu rasa cam senang la but one after another maid in 2 years time ni byk plak halnya, i dh rasa cam kureng sket nak ada maid.

In one way tu mmg senang but musti punya kepala tu agak serabut even sikit. Ntah la, last year
(2008 actually) after delivered to Adib, i got my maid named Ani. She's ok and i lega sangat coz got her during my confinement. Meaning nnt i dh keje dah ada org nak jaga kiddos. But Ani keje with us not even for 1 year with reason her mother passed away so takde org nak jaga anak2 dia. Its quite big impact to us especially Adib coz he really close with Ani. Susah dia nak kat org lain but lelama dia kat nursery tu dh okay and with other people jugak la.

After Ani left, lama gak we all nak dpt new maid apalagi byk kes Indonesia tak bagi their people keje sini bla bla bla. So, after raya we managed to get this maid named Ati. But with Ati's around, i think kepala i bertambah beban lagi ada. Dalam erti kata lain, dia tak boleh buat keje. So with only a week dia keje i hantar balik to agent. Mmg masa tu sakitnya hati...

Last weekend we just got the new maid. So far this maid ok but skang ni i always got the feeling that every maid yg keje won't stay for a long time...tu pasal la kot my heart cam tak comfortable sangat but nak buat suma sendiri tak mampu la kot especially now Abg dah join a new dept and ada time2 dia kena outstation...uhhhh...hope apa yang kami dapat skang is the best for now... still hoping.... hehe

Aku sekali lagi sakit hati pasal maid. But kali nih with the agent. Mana taknya, suppose he pass thee maid to us by last week, to be exact last Wednesday. Pastu banyak dalih itu ini. Then dia kata on Friday he will send the maid to BTP. Tunggu punya tunggu tak sampai2 gak. Last2 dapat tau maid pon tak sampai Mesia nih lagi. Adoyai....memang berbulu jek ngan agent ni. Masa nak sign agreement ngan diorg dulu kan main sweet talker. pastu dia kata this Wednesday which is today.

Skali lagi hangin pasal memula nak hantar malam ni. tadi dia msg Abg kata esok pagi pulak.... &(&^%& punya agent. Dah la pagi esok nak gi register sekolah Abbas. Bila call ringing tapi tak angkat. Bengang betul la. Kekadang tuh bila pikir2 baik la tak yah ada maid, hantar nursery kiddos lagi senang. But sian kat diorg plak, arghhhh...Memang aku hangin tap gaban dah nih. Siottt je la depa nih. Suka nak ngamik kesempatan ke atas kesusahan org lain. Bila Abg msg dia kata kami nak amik sendiri tonight, sampai la nih tak balas2 msg tuh. Silap2 maid nye takde gak lagi. Kalau minggu lepas dok buat alasan anak dia sakit la, masuk sepital la...kalau tipu l biar anak dia sakit sungguh. Bukan tak kesian tapi banyak sgt alasannya.

Kalau korang nak deal ngan agent nih tak yah la deal ngan adik beradik named Nizam & Wan nih. memang nyakitkan hati. And the morale of the story, biar apa pon alasan depa suh bayar full payment, jangan dok bagi. Kita bayar nak suh depa expedite the things, lagi lambat ada la.

We still looking for maid....kena cari ganti gak. Kalau tak sapa nk jaga kiddos nnt bila I dh start keje. So after hantar Maisara on Sunday morning, we all gi jumpa maid agent kt RnR Jejantas. So alhamdulillah kalau data Ab kt imigresen ok, in 2 weeks time dpt la maid nye. Hopefully kali ni ok n kiddos akan rasi la ngan dia. Diorg ni dh tanya bila nk balik umah....

While waiting for the agent, sempat lagi gi main kt playground but the condition mainan dia mmg dah teruk la....bila la diorg nk buat maintenance...tol makin naik tp service makin teruk....aparaaaa

On Thursday gak I dpt berita tak best about my maid. Selama ni Puji worked for me for nearly one year and there's seems no problem at all. Keje dia pun ok even sometimes kena suruh 2-3 kali. But that's nature of people la. Thanks to my neighbour who willing to amik tau hal jugak. Sometimes I wonder why people said that bila our neighbour telling us something happen at our house bila kita takde, they called it as busy body. On the other hand sebenarnya they care about us. Of course la ada batas.

But in my case, if they don't tell me, I would never know the true color of my maid. Depan kita pijak semut pun tak mati. So after discussing with Abg about this, we all tak nak lengah2 lagi, we agreed to talk to her that night gak. Of course lepas kiddos tido la. Then after so many excuses, i found the evidence and of course dia pon tak leh nak jawab balik la. So dipendekkan citer, the choice that i gave her is going back to Indon.

Malam tu gak i and Abg browse the ticket for her. Dah last minute of cos la mahal kan. But for me, cecepat hantar dia balik lagi lega jiiwa. Kang kalau dh terberanak lagi mau meroyan akak nih. So, for those yg tak tau procedure nak hantar maid balik before permit expired, its very simple. Just beli tiket...as per my case, i beli jek tikeet air asia and print then the next morning tu terus gi direct to imigration office and cencel the permit. Pastu ptg tu gak dia blah balik Indon.

I actually malas la nak bersangka jahat kat org but bila dh kena mcm ni ala2 serik gak la but life must go on. And for me and Abg we still need a maid to look after the kiddos masa we all gi opis. Ni one of the experience for us la....harap2 tak berulang lagi laaa....